Here's the two passages that inform my thinking, He says please to her, and the narrator says the stuff below, then it states Apocalypse is his birthright (Akka) and then the second passage describes her actions.
"there is knowledge in our manner, ways to prove that utterly elude the apparent sunlight of speech. Sorcery does not exhaust the miracle of voice: with one word it seemed, he had demonstrated to her what tomes of disputation could never do"
"In a single motion, she pulled the thread about her head and cast the pouch out over the void of the oblitus, No eyes followed their descent into the wrack and panic. Her last proof against him. Anasurimbor mimara stepped onto the teetering brink , and then took his sorcerous hand."